possessive youngsters

This is all about ignition in young minds... (this was actually written exactly one year before)

Today i would like to say something about a different kind of phenomenon
present and seen all over the places.
Yesterday me and sanadhya went to this place called aangan for Dinner. And
we were jsut looking at all the people and also talking out usual chitto
chat. Then there come one sardarji who was totally like Jaspal Bhatti, with
his family. There was another couple without any addition to their family,
so were njoying themselves.
Then we saw one beautiful lady entering the restaurant. She looked great
really. And there was her hubby or watever with him, who was nice looking
too. As we were appreciating the beauty and they sat down in parallel row
with a table on which some chinese/japanese techies were having dinner. And
definitely as we are pin-pointers we were quick to note down that girl sat
down towards us, so we could not see her face any longer now.
After a few minutes, the lady went for restroom and when she came back we
noticed that the guy changed the positions and was now sitting towards us
and girl sat facing us now. O boy, i just hate these possessive guys. Who
think that the other guys will jsut take away THEIR lady/girl. And in this
scene, overlook that now girl is in direct contact with other guys and maybe
giving a bigger opportunity to some cassanova :-) All this looks so funny as
these type of scenes have happened so many times now that i can generalize
the feeling now.
I used to feel totally aghast even in college days when people used to hide
about girls they chatted with or tried to make contacts. Frankly i felt as
if guys were feeling like someone would just take away their girl right in
front of their eyes. I mean how can u be so possessive about
something/someone which u have never met and moreover u even don't know the
reality if some guy is making a fool of u in disguise.
The whole psychology is totally mysterious as this happened amond greatest
friends. But i feel that maybe people don't want to share somethings from
their best friends also. And i wud say i'm big example of this. If i don't
want to tell it to anyone, then i don't want to tell it, why do i care. But
most difficult part is when you tell something to someone and then that
sells in whole market. Then if any other friend talks about it and asks for
details, then its totally chaotic situation as you don't want to tell it and
then also feel i told to that guy and not to this guy, and between this and
that you loose that important time of making decision and get caught. And
when u try to make a move to tell, this guy is not there, simply telling you
that he believed you were a good friend and still u don't want to tell and
blah blah. And then time is gone and you might get a distance between
friends. And then you yourself don't tell it to anyone else. But the damage
is already done, even if you tell the so called secrets after this time.
Because you told him/her after telling that thing to so many people.

I'm not sure if i you were able to comprehend this behavior, if not let's
discuss it :-)